Enneagram Coaching
The journey towards freedom and healing requires awareness of patterns that keep the self stuck in a cyclical story that limits growth and potential.
In our work together, we will discuss—in detail and specificity— your patterns and how they construct a known, yet limited life.
Knowing your story makes you powerful.
Writing your Own story makes you limitless.
Enneagram Coaching is distinct from therapy in that it focuses on your archetype (the character you play) and your narrative (the stories you tell yourself) in order to build awareness around patterns and tendencies that keep you trapped in a life that is unfulfilling.
You can’t work with what you can’t name.
Enneagram Coaching is more cerebral, but can certainly be paired with somatic techniques, like Hakomi Method, to deepen awareness of the unconscious and internally shift patterns. This is done through releasing old messages and tension that no longer serve a function and arrest one’s development.
Ideally, Enneagram Coaching and Hakomi Method work in partnership with one another, which is why there is no distinction in cost between the two. Instead, the distinction is about intention and the client’s readiness for one process or another.
What is Enneagram Coaching?
How it Works
A 55min session where we discuss your Enneagram Type, personal story, and identify self-limiting patterns of behavior and beliefs.
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT
You can expect session to be insightful, as well as personal and intellectually deep. Sessions often challenge internalized beliefs and help guide a person towards alternative strategies that invite more flexibility and freedom. These sessions are intended to shift long held self-limiting beliefs and patterns.
My Training
I have been a certified Enneagram coach for 5 years and a licensed therapist and Drama Therapist for over 15 years. I am also a teaching mentor at CP Enneagram Academy (the very school I received my training through) where I now guide students towards deepening their knowledge about the Enneagram. I also bring to the table a deep knowledge about story, growth, and catharsis as a former actor, director, and writer.
Rate
$205 / 55min
“Wilder’s genuine care, humor,
and commitment to his clients are unmatched.”
"Before working with Wilder, I felt misunderstood, unmotivated, and hopeless. I wanted to improve my relationships and find balance without burning myself out. Wilder's understanding of modern culture, gaming, and his ability to truly honor and validate my emotions made him the perfect fit.
Through our sessions, I’ve gained confidence, emotional maturity, and a deeper understanding of myself.
Wilder’s genuine care, humor, and commitment to his clients are unmatched. I can’t thank him enough for helping me unlock suppressed emotions and use them in ways I never thought possible."
-Sean S.
Frequently asked questions
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My approach is designed for those who have already begun their Enneagram journey and are needing initiating to the next step in their journey. If you are just learning about the Enneagram, I am happy to provide names of individuals who can help you with finding your type and getting started.
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If you know your type and subtype already, chances are you are beginning to see the ways in which your passion and dominant instinct are running the show. You may not, however, know what to do now which is where coaching comes in to help guide you towards the most important steps to take right now.
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Absolutely! As someone who is neurodivergent, I understand the importance of being met where you are, but also being seen as capable of profound growth. If you are on a growth journey and need help parsing out what aspects of your personality are your type and which are connected to neurodivergence, I can help!
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Yes! If you are located outside of the USA and are interested in coaching, contact me to discuss options and availability.